✔ You fear the future . . . mostly that you will never have a successful relationship.
✔ You feel guilt and/or shame
✔ Even though you may have wanted the divorce/separation, you experience moments of feeling like it was a big mistake.
✔ You may still feel attached to your ex-spouse even though you know this person is not good for you.
✔ Have you been told you are "too serious"?
✔ You have a rich and complex inner life.
✔ The idea–or act–of dating cause you to feel easily drained or discouraged?
✔ You can go for months, even years, between dates and relationships?
✔ Do you withdraw into yourself often and stop making efforts to improve relationships?
✔ You feel you may have been a failure at marriage or in choosing a good partner.
✔ You feel alone, or perhaps like a loner.
✔ You may feel misunderstood, or even filled with anger and/or rage.